「言者所以在意，得意而忘言」
“Words exist for meaning; once you have the meaning, forget the words”
—— 庄子得意忘言：得了意思，便可忘言——言是舟，意是岸。可与言者所以在意并读。今日：争论用词时，先确认彼此是否已靠岸。
Get the meaning, forget the words: words are the boat, meaning the shore. Pair with words exist for meaning. Today: fighting over diction, first check whether both have already landed.