「克己复礼为仁」
“To restrain the self and return to ritual propriety—this is Ren”
—— 论语克己复礼为仁：克制私意，回到恰当的分寸——仁靠训练，不靠情绪。可与温而厉并读。克的是私意，复的是恰当分寸。今日：冲动发送前，复的那一点「礼」往往是编辑键。
Overcome the self and return to ritual as ren—restrain private impulse, return to fitting measure; ren is training, not mood. Pair with warm-yet-strict. Today: before an impulsive send, the “ritual” you return to is often the edit key.