Kong Rong Yields the Pear
孔融四岁时与兄弟分梨，取最小的一个。成人后成为东汉名士，故事成为幼学「礼让」教材。英语检索 “Kong Rong pears.”
At four, Kong Rong chose the smallest pear among brothers—later a famous Han scholar. Classic courtesy lesson for children; English searches “Kong Rong pears.”
孔融让梨：礼让从小处练——把好处让给更需要的人。不是表演谦虚，而是看见他人的位次与需求。小梨里的礼，是日后大分配的预习。今日：资源分配时，先问谁更脆弱，而不是谁嗓门大。
Kong Rong yields the pear: courtesy practiced in small things—give the better share to who needs it more. Not performed humility; noticing others’ place and need. Today: when allocating, ask who is more vulnerable, not who is louder.
After the moral, ask one question: if a similar choice showed up today, where does the story snag? Name that tension first—then take your own step. You need not copy the ancients, only borrow their clarity.